.Al-Fatihah.

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KUALA LUMPUR: Seorang kanak-kanak perempuan berusia tiga tahun mati dengan kesan luka pada muka dan perut, dipercayai didera oleh teman lelaki ibunya di kediaman mereka, di Kampung Batu 30, Ulu Yam Lama, dekat Batang Kali, malam kelmarin.

Syafia Humairah Sahari dipercayai ditampar dan disepak di perutnya beberapa kali sehingga mengalami kecederaan parah pada tubuh selain luka muka, dagu, telinga serta lebam kaki dan tangan.

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How could anyone do this kind of treatment to this little girl? You are so mean and cruel. She is not even your own flesh and blood. Treat people with respect. Love them. This is not the way to treat others. What if others do this to your own family? What will you feel?

Nowadays, courtesy is rarely seen within us. People seems to have lack of empathy and sympathy. I could not dare to imagine what will happen next if everyone will be doing the same. World is not a safe place anymore.

*Frustrated*

what you give, you get back

Every single thing comes in package. And, things happen for a reason too. We are given with a brain to think, two legs to walk, two hands to hold, two ears to listen. But why we are given with only one heart? The reason is because we have to find another heart to complete us. Auww!!So sweettt~

Well, that is the simplest example that things come in package as it happens for a reason. But somehow we are too blind to realize it. As a friend of mine said that there will always a blind spot in our life. When we are in the blind spot zone, we tend to not realize the causes and effects of our own action. We are not able to rationalize things and we started to blame others without accepting our own mistakes.

Sometimes, people choose to be ignorant as they think that ignorance is bliss. Come on, Please think about it again and again. Are you sure that by being so it gives you the never ending happiness rather than being idealist and think about the cause and the effect that will destroy your mission to achieve something. It is not that we are negatively foresee our future but sometimes we need to be pessimist in order to be ready to face the future that will never agree with you every time, everywhere and every day.

Life is tough. We need to endure it with the good and right things to do. Do not afraid to face it with an open arm and open heart. Be brave in making decision. Though we make mistakes and choose the wrong side of the road, somehow we will learn from it. This is how the learning process takes place. However, my dear, through out our journey in this world, please bear in mind that "what you give you get back". So, please do not blame others on your own decision as you are fully responsible on it.

• if you do shit to others, people will do shit to you,
• if you ignore others now, please do not questions why they ignore you later,
• if you think you are superior now, you will not that superior later,
• if you are being stingy with your friends, there will lots of people will do the same at you,
• if you do not listen to others, do not worry people will not listen to you either

BUT,

• if you do good things to others, they will do the same,
• if you appreciate your friends, they will appreciate you more,
• if you mellow down a bit, people will love you a lot,
• if you understand people around you, they will understand you too,
• if you are willingly to spend you precious time with others, you will be surprised that there will be a lot of people will spend their time with you

AND, the list goes on...

ALL we need to do is to be good and be kind!!

"For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speaks only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone."
Audrey hepburn

sooner or later, i'll lose you. and it's selfish for me to ask you to stay.

If I could catch a rainbow
I would do it just for you
And share with you its beauty
On the days you're feeling blue.

If I could build a mountain
You could call your very own;
A place to find serenity,
A place to be alone.

If I could take your troubles
I would toss them in the sea,
But all these things I'm finding
Are impossible for me.

I cannot build a mountain
Or catch a rainbow fair,
But let me be what I know best,
A friend who's always there..

p.s: i am not the poet, i took this beautiful poem from my email. it's so beautiful that i cannot bare not to share with you.

p.s.s: this i dedicate to all of you especially to all my beloved-you know who you are.

poker face

to smile and be happy.
to act like nothing happened.
to run freely and swiftly.
to walk with proud.
to talk with confident.
to sing wonderfully.
to dance greacefully.
to pretend and be happy infront others.


it's not being hypocrite nor poker face but it is to face the world positively.

p.s: semoga diberkati~

You Are Too Good To Be True

This is a gentle reminder for everyone.

Especially for me myself.

Everybody is not perfect.

Nor am I.

So please do not finger pointing at others.

Reflect yourself before criticizing others.

Or else, you are going to be the laughing stock.

Walk the talk not talk the walk.

p.s: you know who you are.

p.s.s: kurang damai

THE SKY IS FALLING

The sky is falling. That is what I felt just now. It has been hours and hours of hearing the same sound from the sky. You may label me as insane but I am sure I am not. Not only me felt and heard that sound. My friends too. It sounds like something is cracking up there. You may say that as the fireworks, but what festive they are celebrating right now?? And the sounds can be heard from yesterday.

Well, I hope that it just the sign of raining. Cats and Dogs. Yeah! It's too hot lately, so maybe rain will pouring down soon. AND, let's hope there is no war coming here and the sound is not from the guns whatsoever. THINK POSITIVE!!!

However, let me share some general signs that the world is going to end.

• There will be bloodshed everywhere and there will be neither justice nor peace.
• There will be no mercy, no love and no sympathy - people will not trust each other.
• Marriages between man and man, between woman and woman will flourish.
• The world is getting hotter.
• Earthquakes.
• Morality is declining.
• so on and so forth....

SO, are you ready????

p.s: Owh, by the way, have you watched CHICKEN LITTLE??? The movie is about Chicken Little who is trying to gain back the neighbourhood's trusts after he claimed that the sky is falling down. But, it's not. He struggles to restrore his reputation. And, after he redeemed himself, the sky is really falling down. What happened next?? Do watch it and enjoy!!!!

separuh penuh dan separuh kosong.

Half full or half empty???

Which one will you prefer most? It is half full bottle of water or half empty bottle of water. If you claimed yourself as a positive person, you will definitely choose half full bottle of water. Why is that so? It is because positive people see things differently and beautifully. They will not take things as trouble but they see it as courages for them to be a better ones.

To be or not to be is our own choice. We have to be responsible for every of our own decisions. If you choose to be a negative thinker, do not blame others as your life will not be interesting as others. But, if you choose to be a positive thinker, do not be surprised that happiness will come and search for you. This is the reason why we have to be positive. A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action. Whatever the mind expects, it finds.

But somehow, not everyone will believes and accept this. For them, how positive you are, if you are destined to face difficulties, nothing will change it. They will start to blame others for what has happened to them, they will pointing others for their own mistakes. But not for the positive ones. What they will do is to find the solutions to improve the situation. Can you see the differences between these two types of thinker??

However, please bare in mind that both positive and negative minds are contagious. When we meet people, subconsciously we will send signal of our aura to the others through thoughts and feeling as well as body language. People will be happy and eaasy to get closer to those with positive minds. They will linger around positive people and somehow it connects one with another. When we have positive friends, we will eventually be a postive thinker as well.

On the other hand, negative thoughts, words, and attitude will merely bring up negative and unhappy mood, actions and atmosphere. When we think negatively, it will release unpleasant feeling that will cause unhappiness, bitterness and negativity. And, this will relate to failure, frustration and disappointment.

Here are some tips to develop positive mind:

• Always motivate yourselves with positive words. I CAN DO IT!!
• Try to disregard negative thoughts.
• Visualize success outcome and happiness before any action taken.
• Read atleast a paragraph of motivational book a day.
• Watch movies and listen to songs that will make you happy.
• Be with people who think positively and enjoy your life.
• Always sit and walk with your back straight. This will strengthen your confidence and inner strength.
• EXERCISE!!!!. This helps to develop a more positive attitude.
• The simplest yet the most influential to send positivity to others is by smiling. It will do a lot!

p.s: Positive mind sees this world in colourful, negative mind sees it in black and white. Which one do you prefer??

"Men are respectable only as they respect"

"If you want to be respected by others the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you"

Fyodor Dostoyevsky, 1821-1881

How do we gain respect??? Do we have to respect others in order to be respected?? Or do we have to be in higher position to be respected?? What if we respect others but somehow others do not respect us back?? Or what if we are the stakeholders but no one respect us?? Who's fault is that?? Who should be blamed for?? Is there someone or something that should have to be blamed or is it comes from within us?? What if...


1. The teacher is trying too hard to teach but the students are not listening at all?? Where is the respect??

2. The parents love and nurture their kids with all their love but somehow the kids disown them or being rude towards them. Where is the respect???

3. A friend is annoyed with the other friend keeps all the secrets and hold inside her feelings in order to protect the relationship. But somehow the other friend does not acted the same way, yet she is continuing hurting the friend. Where is the respect???


What say you???



p.s: What is love without respect??

Kuih LOw FAt

My brother is getting married in a month from now. It is just a blink away. I would not write about the preparation in term on the event, things etc. but about him. This morning my sister, my brother and I went to Bukit Keledang for hiking. We went there to accompany him. He is so determine in losing his weight. By now, he is losing 5 kilos. He is not that fat, seriously!!!! But maybe because of the mind setting that he is getting married and to keep fit and healthy for the 'alam berumahtangga' (heheheh....) he does everything that is possible. He eats lots of fruits. He only drink plain water. No ice okay. Even if we were having dinner at mapley, he ordered warm apple juice without sugar. He does not eat at night. He does not eat rice. He eats Quaker Oat. He exercises in the morning and in the evening. He sits up in his room. And, all it takes is only strong courage to do so. I am so green with envy at him. After all, I wish him all the best in losing his weight. Another 5 kilos okay. Dear you, please take this as a challenge for you to lose your weight!!!
Owh, by the way, after our hiking just now, he asked us to buy him KUIH LOW FAT... is there any??? hahahaha


p.s: later i'll upload all the piccas ok!! wee~

Good Vibes

I can now breath in and out steadily. I can use my smile again after I put it aside for quite some time. It is miracle and astounding as the bond is getting closer day by day. We started the journey with not knowing each other but somehow towards the end of it, we love each other. It is not something regretful that we learn it too late. Indeed, I appreciate it the most. At least, we learn through experiences.

Yesterday was quite tiring, yet it end up with good vibes. Right after we have finished our meeting and cam whoring session, we had dinner. It was a blast as I had been wanting it forever. hehe. Then, we headed to somewhere to look for the things that can be used for our project. We spent almost 3 hours there. haha..

After all, it worth every penny. love. love. love.


p.s: I am heading back Ipoh. Happy Chinese New Year everyone. Have a blast!!!

p.s.s: (kalau kau tak sayang, jangan kata sayang)

can i have someone to lend me your ears, shoulders etc.

Alhamdulillah syukran, after some effort i have made last night, it is officially approved. Thank you to each and everyone who has made the effort. I am now in deeply need of someone who I can share and tell. The process is too tiring for me. It is not easy to handle especially when it comes to deal things with people. It is imposible to have everyone agree with us. If there is ten people, the probability of people who will agree might only be 9 max. There will always be people who oppose us that sometimes it hurts you too much. It is bleeding inside that I cannot stop it myself. I just hope that you can understand and let's give and take... :)

p.s: the fundraising activities are doing great~thank you for the great effort everyone!!!

*escapism*

In another more or less eight hours, I will be presenting my paperwork to be approved. In other words, I will have to defend my paperwork; the objectives, the budgets yada yada... To spice it up, I am also will be presenting on behalf of the other groups as well.. Yet, I am doing nothing where I have supposedly preparing for it.. What am I doing here? haha.. Let me tell you.. Well, this is what we call as escapism.. What is escapism?? Again, let me tell you, escapism is mental diversion by means of entertainment or recreation as an escape from the unpleasant aspects of life. That shows that I am trying to RUN AWAY from the reality to be able to breath. Mind you, I am not chicken, coward or any related terms to it. But, I just want some time to be away. I have lots and lots and lots to do. I am hoping and praying that I am able to deal with it one by one. This is the final semester, thus, I have to enjoy it to the fullest.. ooOOooYeahhhh *shouting while chicken dancing..ngehehe...*

p.s: let's join me singing and dancing... weee~~~

Friendship Contest Cik Mar

penganjur nya adalah Cik Mar. mari klik2.

• gambar mestilah gambar korang dgn mmber2 korang.xkesah la brpe org pun tp jgn r smpai 1clas plak...hehe (nnti dh mcm classmate contest plak)

• paling penting msti original ok,jgn copy kt tenet plak....klu nk edit2 pun suke ati la tp msti menampakkn "FRIENDSHIP" tu.
  

• hah!!! lg 1 plz la letak banner kt atas ni ye kt blog korang,bleh mempopularkan cik mar&kwn2 !!!hahaha (sengal je bunyi) xtually tuk meramaikn blogger tuk join,senang ckit nmpk.
  

• pastu klu nk follow blog cik mar ni, follow la.tiada paksaan ok. tuk memudahkan korang tau keputusan & persaingannye nnti better r follow,senang nk tau any progress about this contest.

• jz 1 picture je kay,kang terlalu rambang mata cik mar tuk memilih...hehehe
  

MAKA, gambar taruhan ku adalah:

tadaa~

gambar ini sudah berusia hampir enam tahun. gambar ini diambil sempena setahun kami bersama. ini adalah antara momen-momen indah dalam hidup bersahabat. mereka ini antara manusia-manusia yang mengajar aku erti hidup. semoga persahabatan kita berkekalan hendaknya. Amin.

p.s: cik mar, amacam gmabr ni?? COMOT tapi COMEL kan??hakhakhak...ini bukan gambar kelas tau..haha.. :)

kalau kau mahu lari, sila lari jauh-jauh

I have been keeping this for quite some time. I think this is the best time to let it out. I have had enough. I want to shout but I can't. I want to yell, but I could not. Thus, I am writing it out. So, please bare with me. Well for me, relationship is a strong word. It can be defined in broad views and different perspectives. Frankly writing, relationship can be a connection or association with anyone or anything. And, again it reflects with our Hablumminannas Hablumminallah. Through out twenty two years plus plus of living, I cannot run from relationship. It is there and everywhere surrounds us. Where can we hide if there is the One up there who is watching us all the time.

I am not a good person nor you. Everybody makes mistakes as to err is human. I have been through relationship's problems here and then as well. But, can we just let bygones be bygones?? If you do not like me or hate me, please ignore me or at least ask me to go away. But please do not hurt me like this. By putting me in despair and confusion, it would not settle anything. Yes, I am blaming you for this. You are the one who promise me the world and when you broke it down, you promise me again that you will be there for me in any situations. And, only death can separate us. But now, where are you?? For countless time, you were not there and indeed you keep on running away.

For you my dear, you know who you are, I do not want to lose you. You are one of my 'bestest' friends. You know me well. You were always there if I needed you. And, you know when is the right time that I need you most. But, why are treating me like this? Even worse, why are you keep on running away?? Don't you feel tired? Fine, fine, I am not blaming you, it is just a feeling of regrets that you are not being there for me. I know it sounds selfish but you are selfish too.hehe..

p.s: it's just a piece of my thoughts. forgive me.

Tolong Jangan Jaga Tepi Kain Orang Boleh Tak??

Are you aware of everything that is happening around you?? Or are you choose not to know because for you people who knows everything is just like "tolong jangan jaga tepi kain orang bole tak" before you realized that not everyone is wearing kain at the moment. They might be wearing pants or maybe they are not wearing anything at all. So, how it is applicable to label them as 'jaga tepi kain orang?' okay.okay. Straight to the point people! Basically, if you are lack of knowledge or you are unaware of something or chooses to subjectively ignore information, that is what we call as IGNORANCE.

Do you think being ignorance is a good thing to do?? Well, for me it is not. By being ignorance sometimes you tend to hurt others unintentionally as you are not aware of their feeling etceteras. Let's see from other perspectives people. Okay. What if, your friend acted weirdly and you know something is not right. However, being you with your ignorance attitude, you did not attend to your friend's need as you do not want to 'jaga tepi kain dia'. And, the next day he died!!!! What would you feel??? Don't you feel guilty?? Aha. That's sound too tragic I guess. Okay. Let's find another example that is not that tragic. em em em....

Okay. This is for real, i guess. Let me come clean before any of you pointing fingers at me. Frankly, I am being IGNORANCE at times as well. Please do not blame me. It is easier said than done, right?? I know that ignorance it not a bliss but somehow I keep on repeating the same thing. Case in point is assigments my dear. I know to procrastinate is not good for your health but somehow I do it all the time. I tend to ignore my assignments and that shows that I am IGNORANCE too. Omaigod, I am condemning myself. *run away and hide*

Well, i am not writing this about you or even you. I am just writing about me. I have been neglecting my study, my assignments, my work etceteras all these while. I only have another week to complete everything before I can happily be at home with my beloved family this coming CNY holiday. But, even so, I did not do anything yet. After being IGNORANCE, now I have tons and tons to do. It is STRESSFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL.... I do not know whether I am able to settle everything on the dot or not.. and, this is why I believe that IGNORANCE is NOT BLISSFUL. Thank You. :)

p.s: I have too many assignments yet I don't feel like doing it.

p.s.s: how many 'OKAY' did i used?? haha *tanda-tanda stress la tu*

p.s.s.s: Let's show some love by not being IGNORANCE by helping 2-year-old Adik Ammar Danish who has suffered from Patent Ductus Arteriosus (PDA) since birth. He really needs RM12,000 to pay the deposit for the surgery to close PDA. "Hulurkan Tangan, Ringankan Beban"

Nasi Lemak for Sale!!!

two heads are better than one? is it so? i guess sometimes it may be true and other times it may not be applicable though..what crap am i writing here..i guess the mind is not fully function anymore. i need my beautiful sleep..but before that, let me share the experiences we had gone through today. i think i have mentioned before that my friends and i are concentrating on our final projects at the moment. we are required to manage a seminar on professional development. in order to do so, we have to collect our own fund. thus, what we are doing right now, we are striving our best in the fund raising program. we sell t-shirt and button badges as one of our ways in raising fund. it is quite an achievement yet we still have to sell the t-shirt more and more. besides that, EVERY WEDNESDAY, my friends and i are selling yummilicious NASI LEMAK at very low price and it is fantastic. after the hard work for the whole day, Alhamdulillah syukur rezeki menyebelahi kami. we managed to sell quite a number today. though the process was quite energy sucker, but at the end of the day we can proudly smile that we managed to do it. nothing is imposible. we have to be positive. and we have to bare in mind that nothing comes easily without any efforts to grab it. congrats on the selling dear friends. we have lots of things to do but with great teamwork, anything is possible. félicitation et bonne chance!!!

p.s: i have tons to write and share, but i just can't at the moment.. i need my momentum back~

Fair and Lovely

"Berlaku adil itu adalah meletakkan sesuatu pada tempatnya"

and, i am not being fair to someone and maybe to you...

i am being selfish all the way without even trying to put myself into your shoes...

i am cruel not to think about your feelings but only mine...

i am bad for not being there for you...

sorry my dear friend...

i am once again not a good friend for you...

p.s: maaf tidak akan mampu menghakis duka. dan aku telah berlaku tidak adil kerana tidak meletakkan kamu ditempat yang seharusnya..